Thursday, July 7, 2011

“An Apology” – A Response

I’ve received an e-mail from my Ex. Not only did she e-mail me, but she posted the e-mail on her blog with some comments. She mentioned in the post that she will have more post/s on the topic in the future. I will not dignify the e-mail by posting it on my blog, but will only post my response. You will get the gist. Her childish games will hopefully be finished as of today! I’m sick of this! I know that she will read this post. I hope that she will take it to heart and end her foolishness.

The following is a copy of my response to her e-mail…


You’re sorry for your “cruel words/posts towards” me “in 2007 and 2008”? What about you’re cruel words/posts from 2009 to now? How can you apologize for something that you continue to do? Nothing has changed. You continue obsessing about me. I believe that your e-mail and blog post are yet another attention getting tactic to draw my eyes to your blog.

It spooked me when I read that you pray for me “every day”. Obviously you think about me daily and still obsess on me. Ek! You continue blogging about me mainly rehashing our relationship of 20 years ago, however, I rarely think of you now. I’ve moved on. I’ve let go. I suggest that you do the same. I’m rarely behind a computer, and I’m getting out and about these days. I’m living real life, in real time, and not focusing on the past. I highly recommend it!

I’ve recognized some time ago that I could not have any type of relationship with you because your mental problems are far worse than I anticipated. I just don’t know how to deal with it. I’ve kept the door open, but no longer. It just seems to feed your obsession and neurosis. Beth, move on! Let go! Do not contact me ever again! Stop writing posts about me! Move on!

I will always remember you as the sweet, nice, sociable, nervous, lady of 20 years ago who loved me. Not as you are now. I wish you well.



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Mike Golch said...

I had to wish someone well this past year as well.we parted company rather badly.the really sad this is that she is related to me.

Awake In Rochester said...

Hi Mike Golch,

I'm sorry to hear that Mike. It must be difficult especially when it's a relative.

I've been nice to Beth for years, and tried to put up with her malicious, venomous, posts and such, but her so called "apology" e-mail showed me that she hadn't changed. It's just more of her games. And I'm sick of it!

Lady Banana said...

Hmmmm seems she really does have some serious problems to still be like this after all these years! A little bit scary!

Awake In Rochester said...

Hi Lady Banana,

Yes, unfortunately she seems much worse than 20 years ago. She developed a mean streak too. It's a shame because I think there's still a nice person underneath all the baggage that she carries.

Awake In Rochester said...


I'm going to unofficially close comments on this particular post now. I think that I've spent all the time that I want to on this topic.

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